Open letter to parents of Class 10 and 12 board exam students

Dear Parents,

As a counselor who works closely with students facing board exams, I want to reach out to you with a heartfelt message. The upcoming Class 10 and 12 board exams mark a significant milestone in your child’s academic journey, and I understand that, as parents, you want the best for them.

This period leading up to the exams can be incredibly challenging for your child. The pressure to perform well can weigh heavily on their shoulders. In these moments, your support and understanding are more critical than ever. Your role in shaping their mindset and environment during this time can greatly impact their mental well-being and performance.

I urge you to consider the following points as you navigate this phase with your child:

1. Avoid Comparisons: Every child is unique, with their own strengths and weaknesses. Comparing your child to their peers or siblings can negatively impact their self-esteem and confidence. Emphasize their individual progress rather than making comparisons.
2. Create a Supportive Environment: Foster an atmosphere of encouragement and understanding at home. Be their pillar of support by acknowledging their efforts and providing reassurance, irrespective of the exam outcomes.
3. Communication is Key: Encourage open communication with your child. Create a space where they feel comfortable discussing their worries, fears, or stress about exams without the fear of judgment.
4. Avoid Taunts or Pressure: Refrain from using taunts or applying excessive pressure on your child to perform exceptionally. This can lead to increased anxiety and may hinder their ability to concentrate and perform well.
5. Focus on Well-Being: Prioritize your child’s mental and physical health over grades. Ensure they get enough rest, eat nutritious meals, and engage in activities that help them relax and recharge.

Remember, these exams are a part of their academic journey, but they do not define their worth or potential. Your unwavering support and understanding during this time will significantly impact their confidence and overall well-being.

Encourage them to take breaks, pursue hobbies they enjoy, and maintain a balanced routine. Remind them that you’re there for them, regardless of the exam outcomes. Your belief in their abilities will instill confidence in them and help alleviate their stress.

Your child looks up to you for guidance and support. Your words and actions can shape their mindset and approach towards these exams. Let’s create an environment that nurtures their growth, resilience, and mental well-being.

Thank you for being a guiding light in your child’s life and for supporting them unconditionally.

Prachi

Counselor and Advocate for Students